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    <title>Second Life &#8212; 2009</title>
    <description>Thumbnail gallery of SL resident Aplonis Ember for 2009</description>
    <keywords>starling, second life, long-distance romance, virtual worlds, avatar, Aplonis Ember, Sylea Sygall</keywords>
    <author>Gan Uesli Starling</author>
    <copyright>2013, Gan Uesli Starling</copyright>
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    <title>Second Life &#8212; 2009</title>
    <p class="center"><a class="button" href="https://starling.us/sl/">&#160;home: https://starling.us/sl&#160;</a>
      <br/>by &#284;an &#364;esli Starling
      <br/><span style="font-size: smaller;color:gray;">(aka Aplonis Ember)</span>
      <br/>copyright 2013</p>
    <p>The continuing story of our long-distance romance first begun in the virtual world <a href="http://secondlife.com">Second Life</a>.        
    <br/>To read of our story from the begining, start here: <a class="button" href="../2008/">SL &#8212; 2008</a>
    <br/>Our 2013 real-life honeymoon, should you wish to view it, is here: <a href="https://starling.us/royal_star/2013-09_Honeymoon">Real Life</a>
    </p>
    <section> 
      <title>Spanning the Distance</title>
      <topic>
        <title>January</title>
        <p>Screen-shots are lacking from the month of January. This is my because my wonderful Karin (Sylea's real-life operator) flew 2,800 miles from BC in Canada to pay me a visit in person. Arriving in Holland Michigan on the shores of that great big lake, she learned the meaning of <i>lake-effect snow</i>. It was a howling blizzard the whole week she was here. A total white-out was all she could see at times through the windows of my apartment. Other times though, bright sun shown down on all of the snow. She declared it preferable to the months of gray overcast she gets at home. Whew! So glad for that, since now she's to live here. Not in the tiny apartment from 2009, but in the house we have since bought.</p>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>February</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-02-05_22-01-16_Sampan.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-02-05_22-01-16_Sampan.jpeg"
        caption="Our sampan ride began at night">Sampan Ride 22:01</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-02-05_22-43-46_Sampan.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-02-05_22-43-46_Sampan.jpeg"
        caption="Sampan">Sampan Ride 22:43</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-02-05_22-44-29_Sampan.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-02-05_22-44-29_Sampan.jpeg"
        caption="Going by photo time, the ride lasted more than 45 minutes.">Sampan Ride 22:44</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-02-13_22-19-29_Murmuration.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-02-13_22-19-29_Murmuration.jpeg"
        caption="This snapshot was on our real-life wedding invitations.">Our Favorite Snapshot</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-02-17_19-45-01_Freakenheim_Hearse.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-02-17_19-45-01_Freakenheim_Hearse.jpeg"
        caption="Hearse at Freakenheim's Funeral Home">Freakenheim Hearse</img>
</images>
<p>The sampan tour lasted more than 45 minutes. Next there's our favorite snapshot, the one we put on our real-world wedding invitations. Another favorite club is Freakenheim's Funeral Home. Outside there's a hearse.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-02-19_21-51-39_Field_of_Grass.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-02-19_21-51-39_Field_of_Grass.jpeg"
        caption="Field of grass with animated wolves on the prowl.">Field of Grass</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-02-19_22-01-58_Psychedellic.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-02-19_22-01-58_Psychedellic.jpeg"
        caption="Kissy pose balls in a vividly colored sim.">Psychedellic</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-02-19_22-49-05_Happy_Together.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-02-19_22-49-05_Happy_Together.jpeg"
        caption="Happy while taking a break from touring together">Happy Together</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-02-25_20-29-49_Murmuration_New_Pillows.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-02-25_20-29-49_Murmuration_New_Pillows.jpeg"
        caption="Just after installing new pose-pillows under our shade tree.">New Pillows</img>
</images>
<p>Some sims have pleasant open spaces. We especially like ones with vivid colors. The pillows are scripted for those poses.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-02-25_21-30-01_Merry-Go-Round.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-02-25_21-30-01_Merry-Go-Round.jpeg"
        caption="Fantastic world with a merry-go-round.">Merry-Go-Round</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-02-25_21-31-01_Merry-Go-Round.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-02-25_21-31-01_Merry-Go-Round.jpeg"
        caption="Merry-Go-Round">Merry-Go-Round</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-02-28_00-13-42_Firefly.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-02-28_00-13-42_Firefly.jpeg"
        caption="A sim to honor one of our most favorite TV shows: Firefly">Firefly</img>
</images>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>March</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-03-07_12-22-23_Blade_Runner_Sim.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-03-07_12-22-23_Blade_Runner_Sim.jpeg"
        caption="I'm guessing the sushi here wasn't so good.">Sushi Time</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-03-07_12-50-40_Blade_Runner_Sim.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-03-07_12-50-40_Blade_Runner_Sim.jpeg"
        caption="Bus service at the Blade Runner Sim wasn't good either.">Blade Runner Sim</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-03-07_19-11-17_PSK.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-03-07_19-11-17_PSK.jpeg"
        caption="One of the psychedelic world's rides.">Teacup in a Tempest</img>
</images>
<p>We never pass up a ride, no matter how silly. There's also a club honoring Firefly. Blade Runner has a whole sim. The psychedelic sims make me nostalgic a bit for my late teens and early twenties. There is <i>no limit whatever</i> on the kinds of contests they have at dance clubs. Below you'll see where friends of ours threw one for who could show up as down and dirty, poor white trash. The hostess herself set a <i>very</i> low bar for her contestants to try and get under.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-03-07_19-18-30_PSK.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-03-07_19-18-30_PSK.jpeg"
        caption="Long time ago, I used to like this for real.">Psychedelica</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-03-09_23-09-00_Freakenheim_Funeral_Home.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-03-09_23-09-00_Freakenheim_Funeral_Home.jpeg"
        caption="Dancing (possibly also DJ-ing) at Freakenheim Funeral Home">Freakenheim Funeral Home</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-03-21_21-51-53_Hillbillly.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-03-21_21-51-53_Hillbillly.jpeg"
        caption="This was actually the hostess at the white-trash contest.">White Trash</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-03-21_22-18-10_Hillbillly.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-03-21_22-18-10_Hillbillly.jpeg"
        caption="Not so bad looking (compared to our hostess).">White Trash</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-03-23_21-16-42_Dancing_with_Patty.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-03-23_21-16-42_Dancing_with_Patty.jpeg"
        caption="Dancing with Patty the Tipping Cow in the background.">Us with Patty the Tipping Cow</img>
</images>
<p>Above at far right, in the background you'll see a bronze statue. That's Patty the Tipping Cow, a scripted object I made myself. She is unique in all of SL, I'm pretty sure. I made a <a class="button" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gefs-9nkGl8">YouTube</a> video about her. As DJ &amp; hostess in clubs we would play, instead of the in-house tipping object, we'd use Patti. Tip us with, say $L50 (fifty Linden dollars, a few pennies in real $USD), and she'll fall over. But wait, there's more. As a scripted <i>physical object</i> Patty has virtual mass...and also inertia. The bigger the tip, the harder she's shoved. A tip of $500L will send her bouncing off the walls. Where she ends up is always random. Following a successive-approximation algorithm, she floats back to where she started, rights herself and lands on her feet.</p>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>April</title>
<p>She's also a carnival ride. How that works is, first you set the screen to look through your avatars eyes. Then after sitting on Patty, someone else (usually me) pays in a really big tip. Imagine being glued to bowling ball. The visual effect is so dizzying few try it more than just once.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-04-06_21-26-20_With_DejaVu_Thrusday.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-04-06_21-26-20_With_DejaVu_Thrusday.jpeg"
        caption="At Freakenheim's Funeral Home with DejaVu Thrusday">With DejaVu Thursday</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-04-06_21-28-08_Come_as_UR.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-04-06_21-28-08_Come_as_UR.jpeg"
        caption="This walked in the door when we were hosting a come-as-you-are contest. He sort of won.">Come as UR</img>
</images>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>DJ &amp; Hostess</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-04-07_18-02-49_WinAmp_Vista_Hdwr.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-04-07_18-02-49_WinAmp_Vista_Hdwr.jpeg"
        caption="A schematic of how I do my DJ-ing, using ShoutCast &amp; WinAmp on Vista.">My DJ Setup</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-06-29_11-19-57_Aplonis_Ember_DJ_256x256.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-06-29_11-19-57_Aplonis_Ember_DJ_256x256.jpeg"
        caption="This is the graphic I submit to club wall displays when I'm the DJ.">Aplonis Ember DJ</img>
</images>
<p>A schematic of my DJ setup, avoiding the $200 program most others use. Then is my club sign. I'll need to put up Sylea's right next to mine before done editing this page. I post them here in order of the two graphics' vintage.</p>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>July</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-15_22-54-02_Club_Reznow.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-15_22-54-02_Club_Reznow.jpeg"
        caption="Sylea and I dancing together at Club Reznow">Club Reznow</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-15_23-07-12_Club_Reznow.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-15_23-07-12_Club_Reznow.jpeg"
        caption="We watch the rest while deciding where to go next.">Club Reznow</img>
</images>
<p>Often we'd DJ at the Freakenheim's Funeral Home, especially after the Blue Tattoo eventually closed. DejaVu Thursday is one of our oldest friends there, but we've not seen her on-line for quite some little while.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-28_21-41-28_Riding_Thistledown.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-28_21-41-28_Riding_Thistledown.jpeg"
        caption="Riding thistledown under the sea.">Riding Thistledown</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-28_21-45-19_Riding_Thistledown.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-28_21-45-19_Riding_Thistledown.jpeg"
        caption="Just last night we went back to this place.">Giant Crab </img>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-28_21-46-45_Riding_Thistledown.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-28_21-46-45_Riding_Thistledown.jpeg"
        caption="Instead of thistledowns, now you ride seahorses.">Octopus</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-28_21-49-44_Riding_Thistledown.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-28_21-49-44_Riding_Thistledown.jpeg"
        caption="The tour runs all of 45 minutes.">Squids</img>
</images>
<p>The undersea tour still exists even four years later. Some things are different. Now there's seahorses to ride instead of thistledown. The tour still lasts the better part of an hour.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-28_22-10-32_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-28_22-10-32_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        caption="We take a rocket to Mars">Rocket to Mars</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-28_22-11-13_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-28_22-11-13_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        caption="The rocket ride was very well done.">Quite a Ride</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-28_22-13-06_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-28_22-13-06_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        caption="Our rocket arrives on Mars">Landing on Mars</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-28_22-15-30_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-28_22-15-30_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        caption="We take a rover out on the surface of Mars">Mars Rover</img>
</images>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-28_22-18-26_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-28_22-18-26_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        caption="Hey, we got helmets. What more do you want?">Mars</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-28_22-28-30_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-28_22-28-30_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        caption="Snuggling to the romantic light of tiny suns.">Tiny Suns</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-07-28_22-36-32_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-07-28_22-36-32_Visiting_Mars.jpeg"
        caption="Darn these helmets!">Kiss Me Now</img>
</images>
<p>The rocket to mars is on an island just above the undersea tour. Just recently we went back. I had some issues, my copy of the SL viewer being newly installed on Linux. Using the camera feature made it freeze up. But there is now also a big volcano that I don't remember from 2009.</p>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>August</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-06_22-13-04_HHDL.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-06_22-13-04_HHDL.jpeg"
        caption="HHDL">Gaining Wisdom</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-06_22-59-02_Beautiful_Place.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-06_22-59-02_Beautiful_Place.jpeg"
        caption="Spelunking in SL is like no place else you can imagine.">Such Beauty</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-06_23-00-15_Beautiful_Place.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-06_23-00-15_Beautiful_Place.jpeg"
        caption="Wonder if these would survive in the light of our own back yard?">So Many Colors</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-06_23-01-59_Beautiful_Place.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-06_23-01-59_Beautiful_Place.jpeg"
        caption="Should have brought my fishing pole. No wait, I'd be the bait.">Record Smallmouth Bass</img>
</images>
<p>But SL is by no means a single-themed park. It also has its spiritual aspects. I was once privileged to receive the White Tara mantra from His Holiness in real life. Inspiring to find his teaching accessible also here. But meditating is easier to do without the distractions of a computer. So off we went next to take in another sim full of beautiful art, not to mention B-O-U-Ses (bass of unusual size). </p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-06_23-02-50_Beautiful_Place.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-06_23-02-50_Beautiful_Place.jpeg"
        caption="Mermaid avatars had just gone into the water form off the land.">Where did the mermaids go?</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-08_23-45-17_Bali_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-08_23-45-17_Bali_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        caption="The Drama Libre team built this up in just a few days.">Bali Night at Drama Libre</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-09_00-05-44_Bali_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-09_00-05-44_Bali_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        caption="At Drama Libre they've re-built their whole sim every week for several years.">In Bali</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-15_23-10-14_Pepe-n-Penelope.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-15_23-10-14_Pepe-n-Penelope.jpeg"
        caption="I can sometimes be quite the stinker. Sylea never minds it at all.">Pepe-n-Penelope</img>
</images>
<p>On exiting back to the outside we caught a brief gimps of mermaids scampering from land back into the sea. The animation script was quite realistic. Belly down, tail flopping behind, they pushed with their hands. But only until reaching the water, where they swam out of sight. The following night was Saturday, which meant a new theme at Drama Libre.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-15_23-13-46_Pepe-n-Penelope.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-15_23-13-46_Pepe-n-Penelope.jpeg"
        caption="Pepe-n-Penelope">Being a Stinker</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-15_23-52-38_Somewhat_Disturbing.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-15_23-52-38_Somewhat_Disturbing.jpeg"
        caption="You see his sometimes. One explained it to me as re-inventing an unhappy childhood.">Somewhat Disturbing</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-18_22-22-02_Gondola_Ride.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-18_22-22-02_Gondola_Ride.jpeg"
        caption="Sylea can sing, but not in Italian.">Gondola Ride</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-22_23-36-07_On_the_Moon.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-22_23-36-07_On_the_Moon.jpeg"
        caption="Most Saturdays we'd be at Drama Libre.">Dancing on the Moon</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-22_23-52-46_On_the_Moon.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-22_23-52-46_On_the_Moon.jpeg"
        caption="Dancing on the moon in spacesuits is also romantic.">Drama Libre</img>
</images>
<p>Sylea and I once attended a formal wedding inside SL as Pepe and Penelope. The bride said seeing us in the audience eased her nerves by putting a perspective on things. Three days later Sylea takes me on a scenic gondola tour. Four days later we're dancing in space suits up on the moon.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-26_21-58-34_Pose_Ball_Surfing.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-26_21-58-34_Pose_Ball_Surfing.jpeg"
        caption="Pose Ball Surfing">Relaxing</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-26_22-02-57_Pose_Ball_Surfing.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-26_22-02-57_Pose_Ball_Surfing.jpeg"
        caption="This snapshot is in same sim as those both before and behind.">Reclining</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-26_22-04-39_Pose_Ball_Surfing.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-26_22-04-39_Pose_Ball_Surfing.jpeg"
        caption="Nice to see at least our avatars kiss when in RL we're both far away.">Kissing</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-26_22-20-03_Reading_Together.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-26_22-20-03_Reading_Together.jpeg"
        caption="Sylea waits patiently for me to finish and turn the page.">Reading Together</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-08-27_20-30-08_Freakenheim.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-08-27_20-30-08_Freakenheim.jpeg"
        caption="So many creative avatars would come to visit at Freakenheim's Funeral Home club.">Freakenheim</img>
</images>
<p>We try out four sets of couples pose balls, all in the same sim. Can't remember the name. Next day at Freakenheim's Funeral Home club, yet another very creatively costumed avatar shows up for our regular set.</p>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>September</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-09-03_21-54-13_Melindas_Wedding.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-09-03_21-54-13_Melindas_Wedding.jpeg"
        caption="I serve as one of the groom's men for our friend Melinda's wedding">Me as Groomsman</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-09-04_21-37-05_Wedding.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-09-04_21-37-05_Wedding.jpeg"
        caption="Wedding">Melindas Wedding</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-09-04_23-18-03_Wedding_Reception.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-09-04_23-18-03_Wedding_Reception.jpeg"
        caption="Dancing with Sylea at Melinda's reception.">Wedding Reception</img>
</images>
<p>Quite a few couples formalize their partnership with a virtual wedding. Sylea and I have opted to do the opposite. In-world partners for more than five years, we got married in real life first. We've yet to have an SL ceremony, but we certainly shall. Above I am a groom's man. The second pic reminded me of the Billy Idol video, White Wedding. We dance afterwards, of course.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-09-05_20-41-50_Sylea_Dressed_for_a_Night_Out.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-09-05_20-41-50_Sylea_Dressed_for_a_Night_Out.jpeg"
        caption="Sylea's character warmly reflects the RL Karin inside.">Ready for a Night Out</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-09-08_20-56-53_Carriage_Ride.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-09-08_20-56-53_Carriage_Ride.jpeg"
        caption="Terror birds (actual prehistoric specie) draw the carriages at this fantastic sim.">Carriage Ride</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-09-08_22-02-18_Making_a_Bee_Line.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-09-08_22-02-18_Making_a_Bee_Line.jpeg"
        caption="Actually a think it's a hornet. In the same sim as the terror-bird carriage.">Making a Bee Line</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-09-09_21-20-32_Egyptian_Club.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-09-09_21-20-32_Egyptian_Club.jpeg"
        caption="Egyptian Club">Egyptian Club</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-09-09_21-25-55_Egyptian_Club.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-09-09_21-25-55_Egyptian_Club.jpeg"
        caption="Egyptian Club">The Whole Place to Ourselves</img>
</images>
<p>I am often remiss in my SL attire, wearing the same red leathers when we go clubbing. Sylea, though, makes a real effort. One sim has carriages pulled by pre-historic terror birds. It also had hornet rides. From there we go to an Egypt-themed club. Beautifully decorated, we were the only ones there to appreciate it. A lot of sims you find empty for catering to people from a wholly different time zone.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-09-26_23-27-06_Crusader_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-09-26_23-27-06_Crusader_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        caption="Crusader Night at Drama Libre">Crusader Night at Drama Libre</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-09-26_23-41-58_Crusader_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-09-26_23-41-58_Crusader_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        caption="At Drama Libre there is always a couples-dance pose-ball pair someplace high.">Crusader Couple</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-09-27_00-12-40_Dagmar_Klaar_Chipmonk_Crusader.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-09-27_00-12-40_Dagmar_Klaar_Chipmonk_Crusader.jpeg"
        caption="Dagmar Klaar Chipmunk Crusader">Chipmunk Crusader</img>
</images>
<p>Drama Libre's weekly them on this given Saturday is Crusaders. One of the principal artists is Dagmar Klaar. Nearly always she is a tiny, that is to say, a miniature avatar. Hers is always unique.</p>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>October</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-10-03_22-46-32_Make_Yourself_an_Alien.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-10-03_22-46-32_Make_Yourself_an_Alien.jpeg"
        caption="We got these tiny alien avas for as give-away's from a new sim.">Us as Alien Tinies</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-10-03_23-18-37_Aliens_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-10-03_23-18-37_Aliens_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        caption="Aliens Night at Drama Libre">Aliens Night at Drama Libre</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-10-03_23-22-36_Aliens_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-10-03_23-22-36_Aliens_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        caption="Aren't we cute dancing together at far right?">Tiny Dancing with Other Aliens</img>
</images>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-10-03_23-45-19_Aliens_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-10-03_23-45-19_Aliens_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        caption="Aliens Night at Drama Libre">Aliens Night at Drama Libre</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-10-04_00-16-41_Aliens_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-10-04_00-16-41_Aliens_Night_at_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        caption="Aliens Night at Drama Libre">Aliens Night at Drama Libre</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-10-28_20-30-26_Zombilicious_PSK.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-10-28_20-30-26_Zombilicious_PSK.jpeg"
        caption="Zombilicious Sylea Sygall">Zombilicious</img>
</images>
<p>It's costume party time every Saturday night at the Drama Libre sim. But for actual Halloween it's time to go the extra mile. Can't remember my own costume inside SL that year.</p>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>November</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-11-19_21-25-59_Giant_Angler_Fish.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-11-19_21-25-59_Giant_Angler_Fish.jpeg"
        caption="I really think this one belongs with the thistledown pics. But according to date, it got sorted here.">Giant Angler Fish</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-11-29_00-09-02_Croc-n-Koala.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-11-29_00-09-02_Croc-n-Koala.jpeg"
        caption="Sylea and I at an Aussie down-under night in Drama Libre.">Croc-n-Koala</img>
</images>
<p>Not sure where we saw the angler fish. But ten days later we've gone walk-about down under, again as tinies.</p>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>December</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-04_21-07-58_Edward_and_Skye_at_Blue_Tattoo.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-04_21-07-58_Edward_and_Skye_at_Blue_Tattoo.jpeg"
        caption="Edward and Skye at Blue Tattoo">Edward and Skye at Blue Tattoo</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-09_20-59-32_Murmuration.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-09_20-59-32_Murmuration.jpeg"
        caption="Sylea in one of our last pics from our estate Murmuration">Sylea</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-12_23-02-34_Murmuration.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-12_23-02-34_Murmuration.jpeg"
        caption="Enjoying some alone time...all except for the deer.">Dancing on Water</img>
</images>
<p>Edward and Skye were another long-time couple inside of SL. They came to our set in the Blue Tattoo more regularly than any other. With Christmas approaching, I gave them each a free pony. Both were copies of the one I had also gotten for free.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-22_21-52-09_Two_Days_Till_Christmas.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-22_21-52-09_Two_Days_Till_Christmas.jpeg"
        caption="Two Days Till Christmas">Two Days Till Christmas</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-22_22-19-42_Two_Days_Till_Christmas.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-22_22-19-42_Two_Days_Till_Christmas.jpeg"
        caption="Just after watching the sun down.">Waterfall</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-22_22-20-51_Bubble_Ride.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-22_22-20-51_Bubble_Ride.jpeg"
        caption="No wonder that Glenda liked this mode of travel so much.">Bubble Ride</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-22_22-27-56_Picnic.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-22_22-27-56_Picnic.jpeg"
        caption="A perfect spring evening right in the middle of December.">Picnic</img>
</images>
<p>Sylea shows the holiday spirit while we tour a brand new sim. Peaceful, romantic ones so very often suit our combined mood.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-24_22-36-55_Murmuration_Gone_Forever.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-24_22-36-55_Murmuration_Gone_Forever.jpeg"
        caption="Murmuration Gone Forever">Murmuration Gone Forever</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-24_22-55-08_Our_Last_Dance_at_Murmuration.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-24_22-55-08_Our_Last_Dance_at_Murmuration.jpeg"
        caption="Our Last Dance at Murmuration">Our Last Dance at Murmuration</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-25_17-34-22_Sad_Farwell_to_Murmuration.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-25_17-34-22_Sad_Farwell_to_Murmuration.jpeg"
        caption="Sad Farewell to Murmuration">Sad Farewell to Murmuration</img>
</images>
<p>And then we get a distressing surprise. The island we live on disappears taking our home and everything we own along with it! Technically I <i>owned</i> our medium sized 8,192 square meter parcel. But in SL all that means is no one can sell it our from under you. The sim itself still runs on a real-world server owned by whoever pays that rent. What you pay is called <i>tier</i> which is like a tax. Our ultimate landlord abandoned his end of the bargain, stopped paying into the game and after a while, SL shut it down. That was the bad news.</p>
<p>The good news was that the Second Life company extended me a special courtesy for being a premium member. At my request, they re-opened the sim for a few hours so that we could collect our stuff. We went in and packed it up: house, trees, everything. We dance a farewell dance out on the water to say our goodbyes. Losing Murmuration was quite heart-wrenching. We miss it lots.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-27_19-54-09_Rented_Sky_House.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-27_19-54-09_Rented_Sky_House.jpeg"
        caption="From an 8,192 sq. meter estate, we move into a rented sky box.">Rented Sky Box</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-29_22-05-02_Spaced_Out_Dancing.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-29_22-05-02_Spaced_Out_Dancing.jpeg"
        caption="Spaced Out Dancing">Spaced Out Dancing</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-29_22-24-21_Scripted_Flying.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-29_22-24-21_Scripted_Flying.jpeg"
        caption="Scripted Flying">Scripted Flying</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-29_22-44-07_Raft_Relaxing.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-29_22-44-07_Raft_Relaxing.jpeg"
        caption="Raft Relaxing">Raft Relaxing</img>
</images>
<p>From an 8,192 sq. meter estate, we move into a rented sky box. The reason for this is that the estate, although nice, had been rather expensive. Out in the real-world I'm having to tighten my belt for some little while. Sylea finds this place and we move in there, leaving our bulkier items locked up as inventory. We'll bring them out again someday. As I write this, possibly soon. My one-time money troubles are now more than a year over. Recent expenses have been for the rings, ceremony, honeymoon and a new mortgage. I like those kinds of bills so much better than having to write checks to lawyers.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-29_22-50-11_Wheres_My_Paddle.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-29_22-50-11_Wheres_My_Paddle.jpeg"
        caption="Wheres My Paddle">Wheres My Paddle</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-29_22-54-47_Lazy_Day.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-29_22-54-47_Lazy_Day.jpeg"
        caption="Lazy Day">Lazy Day</img>
  <img src="tn_2009-12-29_23-09-01_Tire_Swing.jpeg"
        href="hf_2009-12-29_23-09-01_Tire_Swing.jpeg"
        caption="Tire Swing">Tire Swing</img>
</images>
<p>Come the very end of the year we spend it in southern comfort.</p>
<p>
	Links to neighboring-year TGP's in this same series:
	<a class="button" href="../2008">SL &#8212; 2008</a>,
	<a class="button" href="../2010">SL &#8212; 2010</a>
</p>
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