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    <title>Second Life &#8212; 2011</title>
    <description>Thumbnail gallery of SL resident Aplonis Ember for 2011</description>
    <keywords>starling, second life, long-distance romance, virtual worlds, avatar, Aplonis Ember, Sylea Sygall</keywords>
    <author>Gan Uesli Starling</author>
    <copyright>2013, Gan Uesli Starling</copyright>
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    <title>Second Life &#8212; 2011</title>
    <p class="center"><a class="button" href="https://starling.us/sl/">&#160;home: https://starling.us/sl&#160;</a>
      <br/>by &#284;an &#364;esli Starling
      <br/><span style="font-size: smaller;color:gray;">(aka Aplonis Ember)</span>
      <br/>copyright 2013</p>
    <p>The continuing story of our long-distance romance first begun in the virtual world <a href="http://secondlife.com">Second Life</a>.        
    <br/>To read of our story from the begining, start here: <a class="button" href="../2008/">SL &#8212; 2008</a>
    <br/>Our 2013 real-life honeymoon, should you wish to view it, is here: <a href="https://starling.us/royal_star/2013-09_Honeymoon">Real Life</a>
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      <title>Long-Distance Saturday Nights</title>
      <p>So what <i>do</i> you do when the love of your life is three time zones distant? This is what we do, get together virtually. On Saturday nights, we'd opt for an evening at Drama Libre inside Second Life. Other nights what we'd do instead is sychronize our separate DVD players to both watch the same movie together, Karin in Canada and I in the USA. We use a program called VLC for that.</p>
      <p>All the while, whether it be watching a movie or watching our SL avatars dance, we be chatting in audio. For that we use either Skype or Yahoo Messenger. Second Life has its own audio channel, of course, which we use sometimes. How it works out best for me, is to have Karin's voice in ear buds which I wear inside of over-the-ear headphones carrying the SL music-and-DJ channel. I do that so Karin won't hear an echo of SL's audio inside her own headphones on top of the music she's trying to hear. I know that sounds complicated, but it's still very well worth it to spend even virtual time with the woman I dearly love when we're apart. The real-life vacations that we spend together I'll build up a separate series of TGP's for, and eventually link them to here.</p>
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        <title>January</title>

<images>
  <img src="tn_2011-01-08_23-35-01_Drama_Libre_Enchanted_Forest.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-01-08_23-35-01_Drama_Libre_Enchanted_Forest.jpeg"
        caption="Drama Libre's theme for 2011-01-08 was The Enchanted Forest">Drama Libre: Enchanted Forest</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-01-08_23-37-24_Drama_Libre_Enchanted_Forest.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-01-08_23-37-24_Drama_Libre_Enchanted_Forest.jpeg"
        caption="I don't see us in this but here is a dragon and a...something.">Red Dragon</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-01-08_23-38-58_Drama_Libre_Enchanted_Forest.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-01-08_23-38-58_Drama_Libre_Enchanted_Forest.jpeg"
        caption="Unicorns and faeries in Drama Libre's enchanted forest">Unicorns and Faeries</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-01-08_23-45-47_Drama_Libre_Enchanted_Forest.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-01-08_23-45-47_Drama_Libre_Enchanted_Forest.jpeg"
        caption="My ava hiding behind Sylea's for not being in costume.">Us Dancing</img>
</images>
<p>Don't know if if I was having trouble with my login this night, but for Drama Libre's them of the <i>Enchanted Forest</i> my avatar is not in costume. Probably why I'm hiding behind the lovely Sylea for the last snapshot.</p>
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      <topic>
        <title>February</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2011-02-05_21-52-29_Skybox_Pre-DL.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-02-05_21-52-29_Skybox_Pre-DL.jpeg"
        caption="In our skybox home prior to going to Drama Libre for Pompeii night.">Dressed Up &amp; Ready</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-02-05_22-41-15_Drama_Libre_Pompeii.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-02-05_22-41-15_Drama_Libre_Pompeii.jpeg"
        caption="On clicking the pose balls for couple's dancing, we mistake the pink and blue.">Mis-clicked the Pose Balls</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-02-05_23-00-18_Drama_Libre_Pompeii.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-02-05_23-00-18_Drama_Libre_Pompeii.jpeg"
        caption="I think this couple won the Pompeii theme competition.">Hot Couple</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-02-05_23-00-55_Drama_Libre_Pompeii.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-02-05_23-00-55_Drama_Libre_Pompeii.jpeg"
        caption="Avatars created for a one-night costume competition.">Amazing Effort</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-02-05_23-37-20_Drama_Libre_Pompeii.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-02-05_23-37-20_Drama_Libre_Pompeii.jpeg"
        caption="My turn to bend over backwards for accidentally being on the pink couple's dance pose ball">Lava Dancing</img>
</images>
<p>On the 5th, Drama Libre held a Pompeii them. Somehow, on clicking for the couple's dance pose balls, we get the pink and blue mixed up. Maybe it was from the angle of view. Or maybe it was on account of server lag. Then again, maybe it was a Freudian slip on account of how my avatar's costume (proper fashion for the time) had a skirt instead of pants? Anyhow, it was funny, so that's how we left them to keep on dancing.</p>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2011-02-13_00-09-34_Drama_Libre_When_Machines_Attack.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-02-13_00-09-34_Drama_Libre_When_Machines_Attack.jpeg"
        caption="Alas but that we got in too late to claim the dance pose balls on the swinging wrecking ball.">A Swinging Place</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-02-13_00-29-45_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-02-13_00-29-45_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        caption="For Karin and I this too is romantic. That's her in green.">Romantic Dancing</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-02-13_00-39-01_Drama_Libre_Spazzy.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-02-13_00-39-01_Drama_Libre_Spazzy.jpeg"
        caption="My real-life son, as Marvin the Robot from Hitchhiker's Guide.">SpazzyMcNugget</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-02-13_00-41-59_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-02-13_00-41-59_Drama_Libre.jpeg"
        caption="Dagma Klaar, I presume, hiding from the killer machines.">Dagmar Klaar, I Presume?</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-02-13_00-48-16_Drama_Libre_When_Machines_Attack.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-02-13_00-48-16_Drama_Libre_When_Machines_Attack.jpeg"
        caption="The skybox set for Drama Libre's theme night: When Machines Attack">When Machines Attack</img>
</images>
<p>Drama Libre's them for February 13th was <i>When Machines Attack</i>. At least semi-in-costume, this time, I teleport in with mechanical, prosthetic arms. Sylea comes in space marine mode. The car beside which we are dancing is also someone's avatar: the Deathmobile. It nearly smashes us flat quite a few times. My real-life son also makes an appearance as Marvin the depressed robot from the movie Hitchhiker's Guide. Drama Libre builds their whole set up from scratch every week inside of an SL skybox.</p>
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      <topic>
        <title>March</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2011-03-12_22-50-54_Drama_Libre_Arcade.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-03-12_22-50-54_Drama_Libre_Arcade.jpeg"
        caption="Drama Libre's skybox set up as an arcade">Skybox Arcade</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-03-12_22-52-12_Drama_Libre_Arcade.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-03-12_22-52-12_Drama_Libre_Arcade.jpeg"
        caption="The dance contest is this night inside of a shooting gallery">Shooting Gallery</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-03-12_22-55-06_Drama_Libre_Arcade.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-03-12_22-55-06_Drama_Libre_Arcade.jpeg"
        caption="That's our own avatars atop the roof at center.">Rooftop Dancing</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-03-12_22-56-48_Drama_Libre_Arcade_Dog-Face_Couple.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-03-12_22-56-48_Drama_Libre_Arcade_Dog-Face_Couple.jpeg"
        caption="The arcade being carnival-like, we come as dog-faced girl and boy.">Dog-Faced Couple</img>
</images>
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  <img src="tn_2011-03-12_23-02-26_Drama_Libre__Peachy_and_Xerxes.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-03-12_23-02-26_Drama_Libre__Peachy_and_Xerxes.jpeg"
        caption="Peachy Sassoon and Xerxes Sismondi of Drama Libre">Peachy and Xerxes</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-03-12_23-06-00_Drama_Libre_Arcade.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-03-12_23-06-00_Drama_Libre_Arcade.jpeg"
        caption="Another contestant at Drama Libre.">Giant Clown Head</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-03-12_23-06-54_Drama_Libre_Arcade.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-03-12_23-06-54_Drama_Libre_Arcade.jpeg"
        caption="Inside the shooting gallery at the arcaed.">Moving Targets</img>
</images>
<p>One of DL's themes in March was <i>Arcade</i>. Suupposing this to be a kind of carnival theme, Sylea and I present ourselves as a dog-faced couple. So very romantic! Never shinking from PDA, we take possession of the roof-top pose balls for couple's dancing.</p>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>April</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2011-04-30_22-25-01_Drama_Libre_Discworld.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-04-30_22-25-01_Drama_Libre_Discworld.jpeg"
        caption="Discworld's Great A'Tuin swims her way into SL">The Great A'Tuin</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-04-30_23-05-44_Drama_Libre_Discworld.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-04-30_23-05-44_Drama_Libre_Discworld.jpeg"
        caption="Sylea dancing with me as the Death of Rats.">Death of Rats</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-05-01_00-58-41_Drama_Libre_Discworld.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-05-01_00-58-41_Drama_Libre_Discworld.jpeg"
        caption="Whatever you do, don't mess with the luggage!">The Luggage!</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-05-07_21-29-07_Skybox_Home.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-05-07_21-29-07_Skybox_Home.jpeg"
        caption="Relaxing together inside our SL skybox Home">Skybox Home</img>
</images>
<p>On the 30th, Drama Libre holds a Discworld theme. I'm ready for this one, having bought my Death of Rats avatar upon first seeing it some time ago. I've read every one of Terry Pratchett's books, some of them a couple of times.</p>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>May</title>
<images>
  <img src="tn_2011-05-07_22-25-14_Snapshot_by_Peachy_Sassoon.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-05-07_22-25-14_Snapshot_by_Peachy_Sassoon.jpeg"
        caption="Snapshot by Peachy Sassoon">Snapshot by Peachy Sassoon</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-05-07_22-37-59_Snapshot_by_Peachy_Sassoon.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-05-07_22-37-59_Snapshot_by_Peachy_Sassoon.jpeg"
        caption="Snapshot by Peachy Sassoon">Snapshot by Peachy Sassoon</img>
  <img src="tn_2011-05-27_22-11-36.jpeg"
        href="hf_2011-05-27_22-11-36.jpeg"
        caption="Missing our long-lost estate, we check out beach front properties for sale.">Is This For Sale?</img>
</images>
<p>I don't have personal shapshots for all the times we've gone to a theme night at Drama Libre. But each time we do, Peachy Sassoon, takes snapshots of us. Here are two. Sylea and I sometimes consider buying an estate on which to rebuild Murmuration, our long-lost estate.</p>
      </topic>
      <topic>
        <title>Rest of Year</title>
<p>Later in 2011 I started having problems with taking snapshots in the SL viewer. In high-rez, the originals for what I show here weigh in at between 2.8MB to 4MB. Taking snapshots that big would cause the viewer to hang, freezing up long enough to disconnect me from the server for whatever sim I was in. My DSL through AT&amp;T may have been partly to blame, but I suspect the main cause to be SL no longer supporting Vista as Win7 had now long been out. I might have switched to running SL instead in Ubuntu, but that OS too had become an annoyance. They'd only just switched their entire GUI from the traditional Linux one which I'd gotten used to over to a new one that they call Unity (which I still don't very much like). And so, while we did get into SL from time to time, I no longer risked my login for the sake of high-rez snapsots. And snapshots in low-rez seemed not very much worth the taking.</p>
      </topic>
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        <title>The Following Year</title>
<p>I have none either from 2012, that being the year I moved from my apartment (within the boundaries of Holland MI) to the semi-rural, ranch home we'd bought. Before even making an offer I had checked with AT&amp;T whether I could get high-speed Intetnet there. Immediately, they said yes. That important issue settled, I signed the mortgage, moved in and contacted AT&amp;T for a hookup. Turns out they'd lied. No DSL available now for my address. So for some months instead I'd login, mooching the WiFi at restaurants and such like. Eventually, and at enormous expense, I contracted for a unlimitied bandwidth 3G network connection via a 3rd party reselling Sprint. It's never more than WiFi speed, prone to frequent, temporary moments of down-time and costs five times what I had used to pay for DSL. But it does get me on-line.</p>

<p>I'm still runnning  Vista on my Dell M6300, however. And in addition to the snapshot freeze-up, I have avatar rezing issues. Logging in via the SL viewer in Ubuntu, though, my avatar rezzes very well. Nor do I get booted often. There is, however, a major issue to do with taking snapshots. In version 12.04 of Ubuntu (which although the latest has been out for more than a year) the viewer locks up. It locks up so hard when trying to save snapshots to disk that I have to open a command line window and type in the <code>ps kill -9</code> command in order to close it. The workaround is to email them to myself, but this costs bandwidth, which I cannot much spare.</p>

<p>So while Karin and I still do log into SL as Sylea and Aplonis, it has not been too very often. Nor do I take many snapshots. So for the year 2012, a thumbnail gallery page I have not created. A skimpy one I'll now make for 2013, and perhaps continue from there. Still working on that, though, at time of writing.</p>
<p>
	Links to neighboring-year TGP's in this same series:
	<a class="button" href="../2009">SL &#8212; 2010</a>,
	<a class="button" href="../2011">SL &#8212; 2013</a>
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